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EXCUSES- You Might Just Have to Eat Them to Lose Weight!

 

It’s a good thing we have excuses isn’t it? And, OH! How we rely on them! I mean, really! Where would we be without them? The simple answer is…"without an excuse." That’s where we’d be. And that’s one thing we humans do not like — to be left without excuses. For some of us, we cling to our excuses like an old friend. Always keeping them close by our side, knowing we can rely on them if we get in a tight spot.

We use excuses all the time for various situations. It’s something we learned how to do even as a child. One of those situations where we find it especially handy to reach into our bag of excuses is to justify why we can’t lose weight. And we all know there's no end to the excuses for not eating right and exercising. Listed below I want to go over just a few of them that are used quite frequently:

  • I have bad genes
  • Eating healthy is too expensive
  • I’m too busy
  • I’m too tired
  • I have a slow metabolism
  • I’ll start tomorrow

Let’s take a look at the word, excuse. We all pretty much know what it is. But just for kicks and giggles I decided to look the definition up. And where else would I go for this but my ole friend Google and here’s what I found:

  1. An attempt to lessen the blame attaching to (a fault or offense); seek to defend or justify.
  2. Release (someone) from a duty or requirement.

Whelp, there it is, in black and white. We use an excuse to release us from the blame. In essence, we are stating, “It’s not my fault I can’t lose weight, there’s a reason!” Oh really? You don’t say? Well, let’s back the train up just a little shall we? Lets dig a little deeper into some of the excuses I listed above.

Bad GenesYes, you might carry an inherited predisposition toward (have and increased risk factor for) obesity. There are studies that have identified more than 90 genes associated with body fatness. The gene with the biggest effect is called FTO. This gene is suspected to increase the likelihood that a person with this gene will be obese by about 23 percent. However, that doesn’t mean you are off the hook and here’s why. Studies have also shown that individuals carrying this gene still respond to weight-loss treatments that use diet, physical activity, or medication. So the bottom line is, Genetics may influence weight, but it doesn’t dictate what you can do about it.
Healthy eating is too expensive - Let’s be real! It’s expensive to eat today period! BUT it’s more cost effective to choose your food wisely. Natural healthy food such as fresh fruit and vegetables can be the cheapest food around. Especially if you buy what is in season. You can usually get a 3lb. bag of apples for 3.99 anytime of the year. How does that compare to an 11oz. bag of potato chips or cookies for the same price? Eating artificially sweetened, overly sugary, over-processed and nutrient deficient foods will in the long run always be more expensive when it comes to your health. You can’t afford not to eat healthy!
Too busy - What? Come on. Let’s just cut to the chase. What you really mean to say is that you didn’t take the time to think ahead and plan, right? We are all busy. If you will be honest with yourself, you will have to admit that when you think something is important you somehow find the time to make it happen. So make healthy eating and exercise a priority in your life and you will find the time!
Too tired - Well, really, this is all the more reason to eat right and exercise! Our bodies rely on the energy and nutrients we get from food. A healthy diet of high-quality protein, carbohydrates and fat from whole, unprocessed food over the course of any given day combined with exercise will go a long way in giving you the energy you need. So when planning your meals, ask yourself this question, “Will this food drain me or sustain me?” to help you make the right choices.
Slow metabolism - Sorry folks but contrary to common belief, a slow metabolism is rarely the cause of excess weight gain. (Shoot! I’ll bet you thought that was a good one huh?) Although our metabolism influences our body’s basic energy needs, it’s our caloric intake through food and beverages and our physical activity that ultimately determines how much we weigh. Even though some people seem to be able to lose weight more easily or quicker than others, everyone will lose weight when they burn up more calories than they take in.
I’ll start tomorrow - Remember that song “Tomorrow” from the musical Annie? In the chorus she sings, “Tomorrow, tomorrow, I’ll love ya tomorrow it’s only a day away.” The people that use this excuse could just as well be singing, “Tomorrow, tomorrow, I’ll diet tomorrow, it’s always a day away!” So, unless it’s 11:59 pm when you find yourself wanting to use this excuse, you need to be honest with yourself and just start TODAY!

You know I could go on and on to discuss all the excuses we make to justify ourselves regarding this subject. But I think you get the point. The fact is, the practice of making excuses can be the biggest barrier to successful long term weight loss and stability. Do you really want to lose weight once and for all to improve your health? Then the first order of business is to stop making excuses and just do it!

Granted, it might be easier said than done. But if you stop right there? — Well, you will have just used another excuse. So I am going to encourage you to adopt a “can-do” attitude to make healthy eating and exercise a priority. I believe you can do it! And if you need some help to get started, please give me a call at (616) 516-1570 or click on the “Contact” tab to make an appointment. And let’s try to change those excuses of “why you can’t” into reasons of “why you CAN!”

 

 

 

Breaking the Cycle of Weight Gain and Depression

People are always looking for ways to lose weight. And for some, they will try every pill, gimmick, drink, etc., trying to drop those unwanted pounds. Only to discover after much frustration that nothing they buy or try will work. And as their weight hangs on or even keeps going up depression sets in—or could it possibly be the other way around?

What comes first, weight gain and then depression? Or depression first and then weight gain? Unfortunately, the experts don't know. But one thing they all agree on is that weight problems and depression are both heavy burdens to bear and they often go hand in hand. While some people experience weight loss with depression, weight gain is much more common and can lead to serious health issues.

So the question is, why, are depression and weight issues so closely linked? Well, to put it simply, the part of the brain responsible for emotion also controls the appetite. And when this emotional part of the brain gets disturbed in someone who is depressed, their appetite gets disturbed as well.

EMOTIONS AND APPETITES 
Emotional eating is when you eat not because of physical hunger but rather emotional hunger. When a person eats in response to their emotions, they are trying to soothe themselves by the food as it changes the chemical balance in their brain. Some foods, especially foods with high sugar and/or fat content may make you feel better, but only temporarily. And because the person associates the “feel good” feeling with the food, they want to eat more which leads to weight gain which in turn makes them feel bad about themselves which then leads to more eating and the vicious cycle has begun. Breaking that cycle can be quite challenging.

Because depression and weight are so closely linked, it is important to tackle both problems in order to get the upper hand on the situation. It’s not so important to figure out which problem came first but rather which one should get the most attention initially. If someone is severely depressed and overweight, the depression should be the primary focus. However if someone is exhibiting an eating disorder such as bulimia, and their eating is out of control, that would become the primary focus.

So assuming the person is depressed, overweight and is looking for help, what do they need to do? It might be surprising but the same tactic to control weight applies if you have depression—Decrease calories and increase physical activity. Now we know that when a person is depressed, they probably find it harder to muster up the energy to just get out of bed in the morning let alone make wise choices on what they are going to eat. However, it is critical to find a way to do both despite the effects the depression is having on them. So below I will offer some tips on weight management that will also help with depression.

BE MORE ACTIVE
Get moving! Most people with depression and weight gain have over time reduced their amount of physical activity. The low energy that comes with depression can be debilitating. But exercise is so key to treating not only the weight but the depression as well. Look at it as something you can do for yourself. And by taking an active role in caring for yourself it makes you feel good which in itself can be therapeutic.

And keep in mind that every bit of physical activity helps. It doesn’t mean you have to go to the gym and lift weights or run on a treadmill—unless that’s what you like. If you are struggling with low energy start out small. Set a goal to get out of bed in the morning and doing some stretches for a few minutes every day for a week, then add a walk and then other activities that bring you pleasure. By building on these small changes, overtime you will feel more in control, have a more positive outlook, and become more motivated to exercise.

MAKE GOOD CHOICES
Depression and food unfortunately results in unhealthy eating choices. People with low self-esteem often use food as a way to stuff their feelings of inadequacy and depression. So to turn this beast around examine the relationship between your depression symptoms and food. Consider the feelings you have about your weight and be mindful of how and when you use food. Food should be seen and used as a source of nutrition, not as an outlet for depression.

To help you start each day with the intention of eating healthy, I am going to give you a list of affirmations I found in an article by Self-Esteem Experts that I really like. Each day pick an affirmation from the list below or make up your own and repeat it to yourself throughout the day.

  • Today I choose to eat healthily because I love myself.
  • I eat for nutrition, not for boredom.
  • Today I replace sugary food with healthy choices.
  • I forgive myself for overeating. I will make healthier choices today.
  • I eat food that is good for me.
  • I make wise food choices.
  • I nourish myself with water, exercise and healthy food.

FEEL BETTER
Ahhh, that will be the reward!—To feel better. By taking charge of your life a step at a time and addressing the relationship between your weight and depression it will help to create a better body image. And as you decrease your weight by eating healthy you will also find that it will lead to higher self-esteem and a feeling of empowerment and content.

If you would like some help as you journey through this process of making the connection that by feeding your body you are also feeding your mind I encourage you to make an appointment with me at (616) 516-1570 or clicking on the “connect tab.” I look forward to helping you down the path of emotional and physical well-being.

NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS – BEAT THE STATISTIC’S!

 

 

A very belated Happy New Year to everyone! Yeah, I know, I’m rather late. I’m going to blame it on a very busy last couple of months for me, okay? Come to think of it though, the time from mid November through the first part of January always seems to fly by in a blink of an eye for me every year. So I guess this past year was no different. It’s probably the same with everyone else too. During that time of the year there is always so much to do and I might as well add right here, so much to eat. And then, all of a sudden, your spinning world comes to a halt and you find yourself in January standing in front of your closet looking for your “after holiday” clothes.

Ugh! So you stand there and berate yourself because you realize that, “Once again” you didn’t take care of yourself (health-wise) like you promised yourself you would do. Or maybe it’s the bathing suits that are now hanging in the stores that has abruptly brought it to your attention. That’s where the New Year’s resolutions come into play — not that that’s a bad thing. But if they are made more so of a knee jerk reaction because of a momentary sense of regret then you will probably find yourself in the percentage of people that don’t stick to them throughout the year. I know I’ve talked about this before but it bears going over again.

Even if those resolutions are made with good intentions, let’s be honest. Research shows that it doesn’t take long before they are gone by the wayside. Let me share with you a couple of statistics from the Statistic Brain Research Institute.

  • According to research done in 2016, the number one resolution made in the new year was………you guessed it, to lose weight and or to eat more healthy.
  • 72.6% maintained the resolutions through the first week. By 6 months that percentage had gone down to 44.8%.
  • People over the age of 50 were less likely to achieve their goals than people in their twenties.
  • Only 9.2% felt they were successful in achieving their resolution.

Now the reason I show you these statistics is in no way to give you an excuse for NOT making a health related goal for the new year. Rather it is to acknowledge that it’s obviously not easy or else the percentages would be higher. Right? And also to encourage you that if you did make a resolution to lose weight to push through so you can be counted amongst those that do make it! Those people are out there and you can be one too!

So what do we take away from this? Yes, people make resolutions and sometimes are not successful. Okay! So what? I’m going to say that at least for a little while they had a goal. They tried! Maybe this year will be the year that they stick with it. Maybe you will be one of those in the 9.2%. One thing is for sure though, you 100% of the time won’t reach your goal if you never make one in the first place. So let’s give the people in this research props for at least attempting to complete their goal.

And besides, you know what these statistics really show don’t you? It shows that a large percentage of people gave up and quit. That’s what we DON’T want to do! Think about all the achievements you have in your life. Aren’t you the most proud of the ones that took some struggle to bring about the results that you wanted?

Really, to be successful at this “getting healthier” thing, you have to retrain your brain into a new
way of thinking — to create and carry out good habits. And let’s face it, just like an unruly kid, your mind doesn’t always want to mind either. When we feel like we might be deprived of something, sometimes we turn into that little kid at the grocery checkout throwing a fit because he can’t have what he or she wants! You know what I mean?

We also live in a microwave society where we expect everything to happen fast in mere minutes. But there’s nothing fast about weight loss. You’ve heard the old saying, “A pot watched never boils.” Theoretically, we know it’s going to boil, but when you stand over the pot and wait, it seems like it takes forever. So don’t get discouraged and give up when you don’t see immediate results. Resist the tendency to slip back into your old habits. Stay the course!

And just a note on slipping back into old habits. From one of the statistics above we see that it’s even harder to lose weight the older you get. Maybe it's because it’s just easier to follow your old habits having  done them for so long you don’t have to think about it. But I also know for us women in the pre/menopausal years it can be quite challenging to lose weight. Our bodies do not respond in our 50’s like they did when we were in our 20’s. But it doesn’t mean it can’t be done.You just might have to go about it in a different and more determined way.

So, let’s wrap this up. We are now in the latter part of January. And even if you made some resolutions and you haven’t followed through with them, it doesn’t matter. You can start over. In fact, today is a good day to start, don’t you think? Start out by making a daily goal, then a weekly goal, a monthly goal and so on. Don’t let the time frame of a whole year intimidate you. And if and when you blow it, don’t let it be an excuse to totally give up. Forgive yourself, square your shoulders and get right back on the path that you need to be on to reach your goal. Do it for yourself, you're worth it!

 

Eating Healthy for Life

 

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This might have been out there for a while but I just recently saw for the first time a meme on Facebook that said, “ Apparently you have to eat healthy more than once to get in shape. This is cruel and unfair.” I laughed because I thought it was funny and got what they were meaning but is it true? Well, it probably depends on your concept of eating healthy, getting in shape, cruel and unfair treatment. I will try to break this to you as gently as I can okay? YES, it’s true! Well,… at least partly. You WILL have to eat right (healthy) more than once and sometimes it will SEEM cruel and unfair to get in shape. There, I said it!

I think the cruel and unfair feelings come into play when we think about the people we may know that seem to never struggle with weight no matter what they eat. You know, THOSE people! Where do they come from and how did they get to be so lucky? I do not know the answer to that. But they are out there and we hate them don’t we? No, not really, I’m just being a little facetious right now. Just to put things into perspective, EVERYBODY at some time or another will have their own issues to deal with. So if your struggle is weight, rest assured THOSE people are wrestling with their own problems. Nobody gets through life without struggles of some kind. So keep that in perspective okay?

They say we are what we eat. Oh boy! For some of us that is quite scary. But really, if you really think about it, if we continue to eat unhealthy and neglect our bodies by getting and staying out of shape, couldn’t you classify that as being cruel and unfair — to yourself? Ouch! That should make you get up off the couch put the Snickers down, huh?

Now, back to the issue of eating healthy more than once. Yes, most of us are not so blessed to have the metabolism to eat whatever we want and instead have to choose wisely what we eat on a consistent basis to get AND stay in shape. And yes, sometimes it can seem hard but being out of shape can be hard also don’t you think? The choice is yours to make — you determine which way you want it. Either become disciplined with healthy choices right now and start to enjoy the benefits of being in shape or enjoy every morsel of food that comes across your path no matter if it is good for you or not and have a hard time later on as you huff and puff your way through life. Does that make sense to you?

You know, I actually believe most people do want to get in shape and eat healthy but let’s face it, it takes motivation, determination and discipline. And there’s the rub. That can be the hard part. We’ve all jumped on a band wagon at some point in our lives to start some new diet that came along and thought, “This is it!” We probably went to the store and bought all the foods and supplements that were suggested and allowed. Or, we plunked money down on some kind of exercise equipment that was recommended. And then after all the excitement and expectation died down, the day of good intentions was met by the days of reality and pretty soon the fresh vegetables turned moldy and the equipment eventually found its way to Craigslist. So how do you find the motivation, determination and discipline?

MOTIVATION

Motivation is what gets you going. It’s the daily spark that ignites a change in the way you think about a situation. It’s what gets you up and off the couch to make you take the first step to do what you want to do. The best way to get and STAY motivated long-term wise is to find a lot of different reasons that are specific to you to eat right and get in shape. Your reason for getting in shape might be different than someone else. Some examples are:

  • Wanting more energy
  • Being at your ideal weight
  • Eliminate or decrease health issues
  • Wanting to be able to be more active and be able to keep up with family, (kids,grandkids)

Figure out how eating healthy benefits you and make your own list. That way you will have more than just a vague idea of “getting in shape” to help you stay on track.

DETERMINATION

Determination is what keeps you going after the spark of motivation. It will help push you through the hard times. Even though you might want to give up, determination makes you dig deep and give it your all so you can succeed at what you are trying to do. Some helpful tips to stay determined:

  • Give yourself a pep talk - Be positive, write or state your goal and cheer yourself on.
  • Find a support system — Family, friends, online support groups for encouragement.
  • Reward yourself for successes along the way - Think pampering or money jar, not cake.
  • Focus on the benefits of reaching your goal.

DISCIPLINE

Self discipline is the number one trait needed to accomplish any goal and especially when we are talking about eating and exercise that will lead to long-term success. Self-discipline allows your choices to be made by informed, rational decisions instead of by impulses or feelings. Some people might find this surprising but self discipline is actually a learned behavior. It requires practice and repetition in your daily life. Some methods to help you to be successful:

  • Be realistic in setting short term and long term goals - Short-term goals should be benchmarks that lead up to long-term goals. For example, if you want to lose weight, set a six month goal, but break it down into smaller pieces, such as losing one pound every two weeks. When you reach the mini-milestones it helps to keep you motivated which in turn then helps to maintain your self discipline.
  • Remove temptations - Why have junk food sitting around calling your name. Removing the distraction from your environment is a crucial first step while you are working to improve your self-discipline.
  • Plan ahead and have a schedule - Don't leave your eating up to chance. Waiting until you are hungry is not the best time to figure out what you are going to eat. Know what you will be eating and have it ready.
  • Practice, Practice, Practice - Think of any great performer that you admire. Even if they started out with natural talent they still had to practice to perfect it. The more they practiced their talent, the easier and better it got. The same applies for self-discipline. You will find the more you practice it the better you will be at it.

So, how’s your motivation, determination, and discipline? If you need some help to get you going or keep you on the right path, call me today at (616) 516-1570 and soon you will be making the changes of eating not WHAT you want but eating FOR what you want and that is, “Eating healthy more than once and getting in shape!”

Weighing in on the Weight Loss Industry

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I saw a quote the other day that went like this, “You’re not rich until you have something that money can’t buy.” How do you take that? After pondering on that for a little while I came to the conclusion it must mean that even though money can buy a lot of possessions, fun, ease of living, and so on, sometimes the things you really want and even need just can’t be bought with cold hard cash.

If you think about it you can come up with a lot of things in your life where this statement holds true. For me the most important things that come immediately to mind are my health, family, and peace of mind. You certainly cannot buy that so I guess if I apply that statement to myself it means I’m rich even though my bank account says otherwise. Now I can’t think of anybody that I currently ‘hang’ with that is rich to where I could ask them what they thought about that quote but it would be interesting if I did.

Now wait just a moment! I just thought of someone I know who IS rich, Oprah. Everyone knows Oprah! (okay, I might be talking tongue in cheek here) but, whatever! Now if there is anyone who has the cold hard cash to buy ANYTHING that her heart desires, it would be Oprah right? Well, Yahoo ran an article this week about Oprah losing 26 pounds on Weight Watchers. Oprah. Losing weight. Again!

Now, don’t get me wrong. Her struggle is real AND public which makes it all the more hard and I don’t want to make light of it. But, no matter how large her bank account is, the one thing that seems to be out of her reach is maintaining a consistent healthy weight that she can be happy about. If you have or still do follow her you will know that she has lost weight many times using various means. And I guess you want to say, “You go girl” because she keeps on trying. And really you don't ever want to give up striving for something that is good for you.

One of my friends used to say, “Hey! When they invent the magic solution that works for weight loss you can bet that Oprah will tout it from the rooftops! (and then buy the company)”

But alas, no such miracle product is out there so can we all just take a moment to commiserate together that some genius out there by 2016 has not invented the one thing/one pill /one drink that would just melt the fat away while we sleep and keep it off FOREVER!

Have you ever wondered just how much money has been spent by people looking for that magic bullet that would miraculously help them shed those unwanted pounds? Well, according to Marketdata Enterprises, a research firm that tracks the industry showed that the U.S. weight loss market totaled $64 billion in 2014.

Now wouldn’t it be interesting if someone could find out the statistics on how many of those dollars spent were from first time users of a product or service compared to people who tried multiple products or were repeat users?

I’d say the weight loss industry has a good thing going as far as making money wouldn’t you say? That is not to say that for some, these products or services such as Weight Watchers, Nutrisystem, Jenny Craig, etc. haven't helped people lose weight. On the contrary, there are people who would swear by them. BUT, let’s be honest, if after stopping whatever program or product they used to lose the weight, if they went back to their old style of eating you can bet they put their weight back on and in some instances probably gained even more.

And should I even bring up the advertising that some of these companies use to hook (oh, I’m sorry, I meant) encourage people to try their products. The next time you see an advertisement for a product make sure you read the fine print that flashes for about two seconds on the bottom of the screen or pull out your magnifying glass to read it toward the bottom of an article. Now that’s where the real truth will be hiding.

So, I guess the point of this whole blog would be that no matter how much money you have to hire a personal trainer, private chef, or buy countless weight loss products you just can’t buy or hire weight loss. And even though you might not have a lot of money, when you yourself make the move to decide to get in shape and lose that extra weight you have been carrying around for too long and then maintain that healthy lifestyle you will find out that you are indeed rich because you attained something that no amount of money can buy.

If you are tired of buying products or services that promise so much but deliver so little I would love to help you discover that YOU have the ability to make the necessary changes to attain what money cannot buy. And also to work with and encourage you to discover how weight loss can be achieved with a different focus and a different way of thinking.

Please call me at (616) 516-1570 to make an appointment. I look forward to hearing from you.

 

NEVER GO “ON” A DIET AGAIN!

 

 

Never go %22on%22 a diet again! 2Parties are over. Decorations are all down and put away. Unwanted or wrong size gifts have been returned to the stores and the Christmas goodies are all gone which means folks, the Holidays are officially over.

But for some, at least for parents, the signal of the end of the holidays are that the kids are back in school. And in honor of those poor children who had to go back last week I thought we should share in their suffering a little and have a little class time ourselves.

So with that being said class, the word we will be studying today is DIET. Isn’t that exciting? And for some of you out there, it just might be. But now for the rest of you, just saying that word probably puts you in somewhat of a panic and makes you want to gather your cookies (or whatever else you think you have to give up) close by your side so they can’t be confiscated.

But what if I told you that you never have to go on a diet again? No, I am not saying to throw all caution to the wind and just eat whatever, whenever, and all you can eat. And I am not saying to not ever set weight loss goals or strive to eat more healthy.

Then what am I saying? Well, did you notice that what I stated above was the words, on a diet? Now let’s take a moment and look at the word diet. The word diet was originally used as a noun and it just meant “the food and drink that we habitually consume.” It also had the meaning of “a way of life.”

Over time the meaning began to change to include using the word as a verb or an adjective. So much so that in todays modern world, most peoples usage of the word include, “To diet,” or “going on a diet,” with the meaning that they are going to restrict what they eat. Usually to lose weight or maybe to “get healthy.”

So with that in mind, I would like to propose a suggestion. Let’s return to the use of the word diet as a noun. And then take the same word and mix the letters up a little. Do you know what you come up with? The word we come up with is edit.

Now looking at the word edit we see that some of the descriptions that are associated with that word are as follows:

  • supervise
  • to collect, prepare, and arrange
  • revise or correct
  • expunge or eliminate
  • add

Can you see where I am going with this? Instead of being a dieter, how about becoming an editor? Or simply put — edit your diet (daily intake of food). If you take your normal daily diet and look at it as a rough draft with the mindset of an editor using the terminology above, let’s see how you could apply them to your daily intake of food.

SUPERVISE
A supervisor oversees and gives direction. As such, YOU are in charge of what you eat whether it is the groceries you buy and take home, dining at a restaurant or attending a celebration or party. You need to peruse what is before you and give yourself direction on what is a good choice.

TO COLLECT, PREPARE, AND ARRANGE
Be conscious of what you are collecting at the grocery store. You have to start with something that is workable in the first place. Unless you are a magician you aren’t going to transform that frozen pizza, cookies, potato chips, etc., into a healthy offering no matter how you prepare it. And, the same goes for something that starts out as nutritious. How many good nutritious food is ruined when you get it home and load it down with all sorts of non nutritious condiments or deep fry it.

REVISE OR CORRECT
Revise means to reconsider and change or modify. Everyone has their favorite “comfort” foods. And no one says you still can’t have them. However, what harm can it do to look at it and see if the recipe needs modifying somewhat to make it more healthy? Or, on the other hand maybe what you need is to be honest with yourself and revise what you think a true portion is. Come on, you know what I’m talking about! It can also mean to change your opinion. We need to really look at our daily diet. If we are honest with ourselves I am sure there are things in there we need to reconsider as to whether or not it is truly wholesome.

EXPUNGE OR ELIMINATE
Ohh, that sounds a little painful doesn’t it? Let’s face it, just because you can buy an item at the grocery store does not mean it is good food for you. A lot of items on the shelf today even seem to be more chemicals than actual food. So if there is something that no matter how hard you try to justify it you just know it is so bad for you, give it a burial and move on to new and better things. Your health and well being are worth it!

ADD
Now here’s the good part. Most of the time when people say diet they are really thinking about all the food they like but have to give up. The truth is that deprivation can actually fuel desire. So just like editors working on a book or whatever else it may be, they don’t just take things out but also add whatever is needed back in to make a successful product. Sometimes we can get in such a rut and eat the same meals week after week. Be adventurous and look for ways to broaden your horizons with new recipes. Try it, you just might like it!

So you see, you don’t have to be a dieter anymore, just become an editor of your diet. Mindful moderation and conscious consumption are thinking about the quality and quantity of what and how much you are putting in your body.

So, if you know that your “diet” needs some editing but you believe that it would be beneficial to have someone helping to guide you in creating a food plan that works for you please call me at (616) 516-1570 and together we will work at reaching your goals for a healthy, happier and better you!

 

Taking Charge at the Beginning of the Season!

 

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Well, it’s time. The official season has begun. Everyone is going to be doing it you know. Some of us could hardly wait for it. Have I piqued your interest yet? Okay, I guess I can tell you now. Are you ready? We are all going undercover. Yes, I said undercover but I don’t mean as in detective work.

I’m of course talking about hoodies, sweaters, long pants, and eventually coats. Anything that covers up. Some of us are saying,“Thank Goodness!” Covers up what you might be asking? Well, how about that pumpkin muffin, donut, bread, latte, ice cream, etc., etc., that you’ve been scarfing down on a daily basis lately. Really……how many things can you put pumpkin in? Everywhere I look there’s something with pumpkin in it. I’m surprised they haven’t put it in toothpaste yet. Now, if it was just eating pumpkin there would be no problem. It’s the cream, butter, sugar, oil and flour you have to add to it to that can cause the problem.

As fall rolls around don’t you notice how your eating patterns can change. All of a sudden our minds and tastes goes in a whole new direction. It’s a seasonal thing. In April and May we are excited about the warmer weather coming and we’re thinking and looking forward to grilling out, eating fresh fruit and garden fresh veggies that are just around the corner. We’re also thinking about getting into shape so we can wear those cute shorts and bathing suits without embarrassing ourselves.

But, living in Michigan those months go way too quickly and it seems like September and October are here before we know it. And with the colder weather we start turning to the heavier and more “comfort food” dishes that we associate fall and winter with and our ovens start churning out baked goods like a factory.

So, before we get too far into the season we would be mindful to remember that just as an undercover agent eventually has to come out of the shadows and reveal his true identity, we too will one day next spring have to come out of our “undercover disguise” and reveal our true identity (figure). So that means making wise choices in the days ahead especially with the holidays (Halloween being the grand kick off) in the not to distant future.

So, I think we need a game plan to stay fit don’t you? The first step is to believe you can do it! The next thing to do is to take control and stay there. This isn’t your first rodeo so you know what your weaknesses are. Coming up with strategies to navigate the potential dietary minefields of the months ahead will help you to avoid them. Below are a few that you may find helpful.

  • Stay ahead of the game by spending a few hours at the beginning of each week stocking your kitchen with healthy foods and planning your menu for the upcoming week. That way as the week starts to get busy you won’t have to scramble at the last minute and cave into the temptation of eating what is convenient (and most of the time unhealthy)
  • Don’t slow down just because summer is over and cooler weather is here. Keep exercising. If you have been inactive, start going for a 30 minute walk at least 3 days a week. Whatever you do, don’t put it off and fall into the procrastination pit. What better time to start exercising than fall when it’s cooler weather and enjoying the beautiful colors is an extra bonus.Keep track of what you eat. It helps to keep a food journal. It will help to keep you honest and help you to pinpoint your trouble areas. A little donut hole here and a cookie there and whatever delectable you walk past and pop in your mouth mindlessly can really add up by the end of the day.
  • Give yourself some wiggle room for goodness sake. Just like we look forward to juicy watermelon in the hot summer months we should be able to enjoy the comforting foods of the seasons coming up. Denying yourself of certain foods that you love can set yourself up for giving in and bingeing on them at some point. So, if there is something that you want, just limit the amount you eat. As long as you stay within your daily calorie limit and eat an overall healthy diet, then allowing yourself a small portion of something sweet or higher in fat won’t harm your waistline. And remember, if you happen to fall off the wagon during a weak moment don’t throw your hands up in despair and give up. Just pick yourself up, wipe the whipped cream off your face and get back up on that wagon. Take hold of the reins and steer it back in the right direction!

It’s still the beginning of the season and if you focus on maintaining your weight throughout this whole season coming up you won’t have to kick off the next new year with the annual, “New Years Resolution” to drop the weight — which we all know how that ends up. If you need some extra help to stay strong and would like someone to be in your corner coaching you along the way (in a pumpkin free environment) please call me at (616) 516-1570.

 

 

Say “YES” to a Healthy and Happy You!

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Okay, Easter is over. How many Peeps, chocolate foil wrapped eggs, jelly beans, chocolate covered marshmallows and who knows what else have we mindlessly consumed over the last few weeks? What is it about all the holidays that make us lose control and eat stuff we know is not good for us? Think about it. It’s the same candy, only wrapped and shaped different to fit the holiday. And yet, we all fall for it like that pink wrapped chocolate egg is going to taste any different than the red and green wrapped chocolate kiss at Christmas. Our year is paced with holidays and the powers that be know how to market their products to make the consumer think they just have to have them even though we just bought the same thing only packaged different a month or so ago. And, combine that with all the traditional foods that we usually consume with each holiday and it’s not looking real pretty.

So when do we jump off the crazy merry go round that keeps going round and round year after year making us repeat unhealthy habits that are so bad for us. Unless we make a conscious decision to not fall prey to the marketing of these products and choose healthier more nutritious foods we are going to keep spinning around and around on that thing.

So now that we have a break in the deluge of holiday oriented goodies confronting us every time we go to the store I believe it is the perfect time to take control and seriously make a conscious effort to eat and live more healthy.

You might be wondering how and where do I start? One thing to keep in mind is that healthy eating is not about strict dietary limitations, staying unrealistically thin or depriving yourself of the foods you love. You really need to realize it’s about feeling great, having more energy, improving your outlook and stabilizing your mood.

We all know that eating right can help you maintain a healthy weight and avoid certain health problems, but did you know your diet can also have a profound effect on your mood and sense of wellbeing?

Studies have linked eating a typical western diet which is filled with red and processed meats, packaged meals, takeout food and sugary snacks with higher rates of depression, stress, bipolar disorder and anxiety. All the more reason to eat more fruits and veggies, cook more meals at home and reduce your fat and sugar intake.

While some specific foods or nutrients have been shown to have a beneficial effect on mood, it’s your overall dietary pattern that is most important. Switching to a healthy diet does not have to be an all or nothing proposition. You don’t have to be perfect and you don’t have to completely eliminate foods you enjoy to make a difference in the way you think and feel.

One thing I would like to mention here is that if you do any research on nutrition, sometimes you can feel overwhelmed by all the conflicting nutrition and diet advice out there. It seems that for every expert who tells you a certain food is good for you, you’ll find another saying exactly the opposite. But by using a couple simple tips you can cut through the confusion and learn how to create a tasty and healthy diet that is as good for your mind as it is for your body.

TIP 1 - SET YOURSELF UP FOR SUCCESS
Take a number of small, manageable steps like adding a salad to your diet once a day rather than trying to make one big drastic change in your diet. As your small changes become habit, you can continue to add more healthy choices.


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Prepare more meals at home allowing you to take charge of what you are eating.
*Make the right changes. Replace unhealthy foods with healthy alternatives.
*Simplify. Eat more fresh ingredients.
*Read the labels. Be aware of hidden sugar and salt even in packaged ‘healthy’ foods.
*Focus on how better you feel eating healthier foods.
*Drink plenty of water helping to flush your system of waste products and toxins.

TIP 2 - EATING IN MODERATION
Eat only as much food as your body needs. You should feel satisfied but not stuffed at the end of a meal. Eat a balanced diet of carbohydrates, protein, fat, fiber, vitamins, and minerals. Also, for most of us, moderation means eating less than we do now.

*Reduce portion size of unhealthy food and don’t eat them as often.
*Think smaller portions. Learn what a healthy portion is.
*Take your time. Give your brain enough time to tell your body when you have had enough.
*Eat with others when possible. Don’t eat in front of the TV or computer to limit mindless eating.
*Eat breakfast and then smaller meals throughout the day.
*Avoid eating at night.

TIP 3 - FILL UP ON COLORFUL FRUITS AND VEGETABLES
Fruits and vegetables are low in calories and are packed with vitamins, minerals, antioxidants and fiber. Try to eat the recommended daily minimum of five servings of both and it will naturally fill you up and help you cut back on unhealthy foods. A serving is half a cup of raw fruit or vegetable or a small apple or banana for example. Remember the more colorful the food is the higher concentration of vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants it contains.

TIP 4 - EAT MORE HEALTHY CARBS AND WHOLE GRAINS
Healthy carbs include whole grains, beans, fruits, and vegetables. They digest slowly and help you feel full longer along with keeping blood sugar and insulin levels stable. Unhealthy carbs are foods such as white flour, refined sugar and white rice that has been stripped of all bran, fiber and nutrients. Whole grains are rich in phytochemical and antioxidants which help to protect against coronary heart disease, certain cancers, and diabetes.

TIP 5 - REDUCE SUGAR AND SALT
I think it’s safe to say that we Americans eat way too much sugar and salt contributing to so many health and weight problems. Do some detective work and look for hidden sugar and salt in most packaged food at the grocery store. Remember that sugar can have many different names such as honey, molasses, fructose, dextrose, high fructose corn syrup, maltose, malt syrup to name a few.

These are just a few tips that will hopefully help you along the way of a more healthy lifestyle and I do mean lifestyle because that is what it is all about, your LIFE and the STYLE in which you choose to live it.

If you are ready to make a life change and would like some support along the way I would love to assist you and share with you some strategies to achieve your goal of a more healthy you. Please call me at (516) 517-1560 or contact me through the website.

Eating for the future

Sitting at a conference last week the speaker threw out this question, “What would you like to be doing at 75 years of age?” As expected, people shouted out answers such as “traveling,” “playing with the grandkids,” “having fun.” Then she asked another question that kind of caught me off guard and I have to believe others too. “What are you doing now to make that possible?”

The interesting thing is, she was not talking about saving money or buying a motor home to travel the countryside. She was talking about what are you doing to your body NOW to make sure that what you dream of doing at 75 will be possible. I have to admit I had never thought about it that way.

Yes. I’ve thought of it in short terms like, if I eat this donut, cake, pizza et cetera, et cetera and not work it off, it will show up on the scale at the doctors next week. Or, I’m going on vacation and I have to put on a bathing suit so I’d better do something or it’s not going to be pretty. But have I really thought about how not eating right and exercising regularly now is going to show up when I’m 75? Well, to be honest, the answer is “no.”

Isn’t it ironic that we “plan” for the future financially but we don’t have the same passion when it comes to what we are putting into our “body bank” that we are going to draw on when we reach retirement age.

We really need to become more aware of what is in the foods we eat and what kinds of food we eat.

Lets’ face it. We are surrounded and bombarded by food everywhere we look. And may I add,
most of it looks, smells and tastes delicious and is hard to resist. Believe me, corporations have spent millions of dollars making sure of that. Which brings me to something I would like to bring to your attention;

HYPER-PALATABLE FOODS

Have you ever heard the term “hyper-palatable foods before?” I would venture to say that the answer is probably “no.” But most people eat them all the time. Now you might be asking, “What in the world is “hyper-palatable foods?”

Well, pretty much everything at a restaurant and most processed food but in a nutshell, hyper-palatable food is a highly processed foodstuff that has been engineered to pleasure the consumer and drive him or her to eat more than they initially wanted to, and seek that specific food in the future. (Uh Oh! I think I just described Oreo’s!) Do you get my meaning?

Our food environment has changed so dramatically over the years with the introduction of
these so-called “hyper-palatable” foods that it makes it hard to find it rewarding to just eat a traditional healthy meal. Our minds have been tricked by the artificial flavors and enhancers that are in so many of the foods we eat today is it any wonder that most Americans overeat and are overweight. Our brains were not designed to handle this kind of environment. We eat more because it taste so good not because we are satisfied calorically.

TRADITIONAL FOODS

  • Foods in their original form, as they were created — not modernized, not processed, not packaged.
  • Foods that have a long history of supporting good health.
  • Foods that are whole and nutrient-dense.
  • Foods that are simple and basic: meat and poultry, eggs, whole grains, fish, beans and legumes, vegetables, fruit nuts, and seeds, dairy, fats.

BEING REALISTIC

Gone are the days of our great grandmothers spending all day in the house planning the meals and baking their own bread. However, with a little planning and the knowledge that is at our fingertips, we can certainly make wiser choices with how and what we eat. I’m not saying that you should never go out to a restaurant or “grab” that hamburger on the way home after a long day. But, if we are honest with ourselves, we can acknowledge that we probably “go out to eat” way too often and buy and consume too many processed foods. For some, it’s become a way of life but should WE be letting OTHER people decide what to put into our bodies? “NO ”

There’s no time like the present to start “Thinking” before you put something in your mouth and ask yourself this question. “Is the convenience of this fast food going to turn into inconvenience later in life?”, “Is there a healthier choice I could be making right now?” Start out slowly and read more labels. Make some new healthier changes and then continue on until you’ve made a significant difference in your eating habits and your health. Your grandkids will thank you!

If you struggle with your weight management goals and maybe even realize that food has become addicting to you and would like some help, please call me at (616) 516-1570 and let’s get you on the road to a healthier and possibly thinner you!

Happy 2015 New Year – Or Is It?

Ahhh, the New Year. We're on the cusp of experiencing a new year and all the expectations, goals, dreams and aspirations that a new 'something' brings. We start reminding ourselves about how important 'new beginnings' are and the importance of 'buckeling down' and 'taking things serious' at this time of year. It's a time of.....reflection....and re-purposing what we want to accomplish.

Pfft. Sounds great, doesn't it? But I think that all last about a day, tops. Okay, maybe two or three days but the reality is, as humans, we like what we know. Even if it's not good for us. Even if it's not healthy. Usually several days into a new way of thinking, reality tells us IT'S HARD TO CREATE NEW HABITS. Ugh. We always want to revert back to old ways of thinking because it's just easier (insert the whining right here).

Having worked for many years with clients who want to lose weight, or dealing myself with creeping extra weight (can anyone give me an amen to the pre/menopausal years?!?!!), or knowing friends or family who struggle with weight issues, I know, I understand, what a mind game that losing weight is. It's about retraining your brain to incorporate a new way of thinking that sometimes your thinking doesn't want to follow. It's about engaging the psychology of how to change your thinking. It's about learning skills and techniques that help you with problem-solving, and cravings, and the madness you feel in your head when you feel deprived of something you want, or crave, or have just eaten for so many years.

It's not about the measuring cups, the food plan, or the scale. It's about training your brain to respond and react differently to your health. To your body. To your plans for a better you.

Outside of my private practice, I work with a doctor and his staff (who work with bariartric patients). I provide behavioral groups frequently for the doctors patients who need a little extra weight loss support, motivation and education beyond the medical procedure that the doctor offers. I'm so thankful that the doctor and his staff 'get it' – they get that beyond the lapband procedure, that there has to be a way of changing your thinking in order to have long-term success with your weight. It's not about being a size 6, it's about being a healthier YOU. I'm so thankful for the individuals I've worked with through the years that 'get it' – that they have to put the hard work into changing the mindset in order to achieve long-term success with their health.

It's not about how many times you've failed. It's about how many times you started over. And stayed with it longer this time. And learned different things about yourself this time. That you didn't mindlessly start down the 'weight loss path' but that you recognize it's a process, a journey that you're on....and it will take time. Sorry to tell you that. It just will. It takes times to adjust to a new way of thinking. And forgiving yourself when you make a mistake, and – drum roll please – learning to re-adjust right away so you don't “blow it all day long” by continuing to eat-the-day-away because you didn't follow some weight loss rule!!

Maybe for you it's not necessarily what the numbers say on the scale but how your body physically feels. You find yourself saying more and more nowadays that you just want to FEEL BETTER, and you know deep down your weight has everything to do with the creaking joints and aching muscles. Maybe it's the high cholesterol, or blood pressure, or even sleep apnea. What can you start telling yourself, what can you start doing this very minute, that when you start thinking about it and working on it, might make a difference for YOU.

Make a plan to change your thinking about weight loss treatment, weight loss goals, weight loss strategies, weight loss foods, weight loss diets, weight loss EVERYTHING and focus on what good health means to you. Plan on what little things you can change. Plan how you would like your outcome to be different this time. If you need extra help or support with your New Years weight loss plans, let's talk. Call me at 616-457-5001 or look on website frequently for new weight loss classes starting.